
You’re not a bad person. You’re not broken. But the anger is getting louder. And harder to control.
Maybe it’s snapping at people you care about over something small. Maybe it’s a constant tension in your body — frustration just under the surface that won’t go away. Or maybe it’s bigger than that. Maybe you’ve had moments where you felt scared of what might come next.
However it shows up, it leaves a mark. Guilt. Shame. Feeling misunderstood or completely alone with it. You don’t want to be like this. But the harder you try to hold it in, the more pressure builds.
Most of the time, anger isn’t the problem. It’s the message underneath it. The pain. The fear. The exhaustion. The part of you that never got to speak. The part that feels like no one’s listening. Anger is your nervous system trying to protect you. And until that deeper part gets heard and healed, the cycle keeps going.
This work is about changing that — not through force or long-winded talking — but through calm, steady inner change.
Anger doesn’t just appear out of nowhere. It’s often learned. You might have grown up in a home where emotions weren’t safe. You might have been told to toughen up, stay quiet, or never show how you really feel. So now, when something builds too long inside, it comes out all at once.
Maybe you don’t even recognise yourself anymore. Maybe the smallest things feel like too much. And deep down, you know something has to shift.
That’s where this work comes in. I help you work gently with the part of your mind that’s been trying to protect you — the part that lashes out, shuts down, or holds on too tightly. There’s no judgment. No pressure to open up before you’re ready. Just a quiet process using hypnotherapy, emotional reset tools, and nervous system regulation that helps you feel calm again.
You won’t need to perform. You won’t need to hide. You’ll simply begin to feel safer in your own body. More grounded. Less reactive. More able to pause and choose your response — even when something hits a nerve.
And over time, that tension fades. The shame eases. Your voice softens. People around you feel the change, but more importantly, you feel it. You begin to trust yourself again. You know you won’t explode. You know you’ve got the tools now.
I offer these sessions online or in-person from my peaceful therapy space in Bury St Edmunds. And however deep the work needs to go, you’ll be supported all the way — with calm, care, and the belief that change is always possible.
A: Yes. Hypnotherapy is a proven, evidence-based approach for managing anger and emotional regulation. Rather than suppressing anger, hypnotherapy helps uncover and resolve the unconscious triggers that cause sudden outbursts, irritability, or bottled-up frustration. Many clients find it helps them respond calmly instead of reacting automatically, making it highly effective for long-term anger control.
A: Hypnotherapy works by accessing the subconscious patterns that drive anger responses. During sessions, Piers helps clients identify emotional triggers, reframe past experiences, and install healthier coping responses. This allows anger to be processed and “distributed” safely, instead of exploding or being internalised. The result is improved emotional balance, clarity, and control.
A: Yes. Traditional anger management often focuses on conscious techniques like breathing or counting, which can help short-term. Hypnotherapy goes deeper by addressing the root cause of anger at the subconscious level. This makes it especially effective for people who feel they’ve “tried everything” but still struggle with recurring anger or resentment.
A: Hypnotherapy can help with:
- Explosive anger or rage
- Chronic irritability or frustration
- Suppressed anger turning into anxiety or stress
- Relationship-based anger
- Work-related anger and burnout
- Anger linked to trauma or past experiences
Piers tailors each session to the individual, ensuring a personalised and safe approach.
A: The number of sessions varies depending on the depth and history of the anger. Some clients experience noticeable improvements within 1–3 sessions, while more complex or long-standing anger patterns may require a structured programme. Piers will discuss this clearly during your initial consultation.
A: No. Healthy anger is a natural emotion. Hypnotherapy does not remove anger—it helps regulate and distribute it in constructive ways. Clients learn how to feel emotions without being overwhelmed by them, allowing anger to become a signal rather than a problem.
A: Yes. Hypnotherapy is safe, non-invasive, and conducted in a confidential, supportive environment. You remain fully aware and in control throughout the session. Piers follows professional standards to ensure emotional safety and ethical practice at all times.
A: Absolutely. Many clients seek anger hypnotherapy due to relationship strain with partners, family, or colleagues. By addressing emotional triggers and improving self-regulation, hypnotherapy often leads to better communication, reduced conflict, and healthier relationships overall.
A: Yes. Piers offers secure online hypnotherapy sessions across the UK, making anger support accessible from the comfort of your home. Online sessions are just as effective as in-person appointments and are ideal for busy schedules or remote clients.
A: Getting started is simple. You can book a consultation with Piers Day to discuss your anger challenges, goals, and whether hypnotherapy is the right fit. Sessions are available both locally and online across the UK, making professional anger support easy to access.